WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN RELATIONSHIP?
This is the question that is often asked in every love and
relationship gathering, forums, group and meetings. A
very large population of people actually said it is love; some
is trust and to other is humility. But none of the
aforementioned attribute above is the most important
thing in every relationship. The most important thing in
every relationship is …..huh! Did you raise your hand up?
Ok tell me, hmnn hmnn amm……???? Ok ok ok, it is not what
you think, it is actually COMMUNICATION. Yes you heard me
right; communication is the most important things in every
Without communication, no relationship will ever stand, even
if there seem to be love, it will falter as times goes on. When I said communication, it is not any type of communication but an effective communication and it is on this that love stand, you cannot love someone and fail to communicate with the person.
Immediately there is communication gap in a relationship,
just know that, the relationship is gradually heading to the
No wonder lovers will want to stay on phone and talk and
talk and talk as far as time permit, even if there is any
kind of discomfort, they wouldn’t mind. If one party
mistakenly cut the call, when next the call is initiated, the
first question that will be asked is why did you cut the call?
That is why effective communication in very important in
every relationship. The level of your communication with
any kind of person will determine how important that
person is to your life.
You can’t even claim to love God without effective
communication with Him, let alone man. If you love me,
then we have to communicate well. So, if you have not been
communicating well with your partner? Just try and give it
a try, you will be surprised on how deeper your love with
your significant other will goes. If you are having trouble
in your marriage, it is because of communication gap in
between both of you, try to look for a medium where you
can communicate and make sure you communicate well, in
no time the problem will be over.
What did you think? Did you think there is another thing
that is much more important in relationship than effective
communication? Please share your thought
below and let other people reading this article learn
something from you.